{"id":12490,"date":"2020-10-21T18:03:22","date_gmt":"2020-10-21T23:03:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/?p=12490"},"modified":"2020-12-16T20:05:10","modified_gmt":"2020-12-17T01:05:10","slug":"the-inescapable-pull-of-the-group","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/the-inescapable-pull-of-the-group\/","title":{"rendered":"The Inescapable Pull of the Group"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/four-riders-on-a-flat-stretch-of-road.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-12495\" src=\"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/four-riders-on-a-flat-stretch-of-road-1024x516.jpg\" alt=\"four riders on a flat stretch of road\" width=\"840\" height=\"423\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/four-riders-on-a-flat-stretch-of-road-1024x516.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/four-riders-on-a-flat-stretch-of-road-300x151.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/four-riders-on-a-flat-stretch-of-road-768x387.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/four-riders-on-a-flat-stretch-of-road-1536x774.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/four-riders-on-a-flat-stretch-of-road-1200x604.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/four-riders-on-a-flat-stretch-of-road-400x201.jpg 400w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/four-riders-on-a-flat-stretch-of-road.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>All week I daydream about a single, ordinary group ride. Saturday morning I wake up before the alarm clock, whirl up a sweet, creamy smoothie, jump on my bike and pedal over to the meeting spot five minutes from home. I have no interest in sleeping in since I found this ride.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>The group I roll with is mostly the same, week after week. We always gather at the same place: they expect to see me here, I expect to see them. When I first joined the ride, I knew no one, but they accepted me as we all have something \u2014 the bike \u2014 in common. We quickly became friends.<\/p>\n<p>Others in the group sometimes bring their friends along. A friend-of-a-friend on a bike is a friend almost without question. None of us would know each other otherwise. This one\u2019s a software engineer. That one\u2019s a medical device salesperson. She\u2019s a lawyer. He\u2019s a physical therapist.<!-- I\u2019m new to this area and haven\u2019t found a social group yet, but am completely satisfied with this one being it.--><\/p>\n<p>We know everything about each other and are anxious to catch up after a week of more-or-less regular life, work, and other hum-drum activities that fill our time and get us to the weekend faster.<\/p>\n<p>Where are we headed today? The ride will be long: 6,000 feet of climbing, eighty-plus miles. We\u2019re building our base fitness, so we know we need to keep our heart rates down. The rule is: if you can talk comfortably without gasping, you\u2019re riding at the right speed. Translated, this means plenty of miles of time to visit. It\u2019s conversation at times, bike banter at others.<br \/>\nThe talk ebbs and flows with the movement of bikes down the road, in traffic and on quiet roads. There\u2019s joking, laughing, and taunting between the girls and the guys. It\u2019s easy to forget about the distance or even the exact location.<\/p>\n<p><!--I don\u2019t know where I am. I haven\u2019t been here before in my life. I wouldn\u2019t be in this spot if we hadn\u2019t taken the back roads that hug the countryside leading to the breathtaking vista. And I never would have ventured here if I hadn\u2019t been just following the group.--><\/p>\n<p>The ride passes quickly and by the end, I\u2019m tired \u2014 we\u2019re tired. We detour to a stream that runs through town to soak our legs. We part and promise to see each other next Saturday morning. There is still a lot of time left in the day, since we started early.<\/p>\n<p>I eat a tasty meal, take a walk, find my favorite spot in a beanbag chair and read myself to sleep. Each of these activities feels better after that group ride than it would have by itself. I have an overall feeling of satisfaction that I only experience after a group ride.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/post-ride-group.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-12496\" src=\"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/post-ride-group-1024x486.jpg\" alt=\"post-ride group\" width=\"840\" height=\"399\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/post-ride-group-1024x486.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/post-ride-group-300x143.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/post-ride-group-768x365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/post-ride-group-1536x730.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/post-ride-group-1200x570.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/post-ride-group-400x190.jpg 400w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/post-ride-group.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Tonight I will sleep better than I have all week. Tomorrow I will awake more ready for the day. Next Saturday is coming soon.\u00a0I can\u2019t wait.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<div style=\"float: left; margin-right: 14px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/patria-vandermark.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-12493\" src=\"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/patria-vandermark-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"Patria Vandemark\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/patria-vandermark-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/patria-vandermark-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/patria-vandermark-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/patria-vandermark-768x769.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/patria-vandermark-1200x1201.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/patria-vandermark-250x250.jpg 250w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/patria-vandermark-400x400.jpg 400w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/patria-vandermark-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/patria-vandermark.jpg 1261w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 85vw, 150px\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div><strong>Patria Vandermark<\/strong> is a co-owner and curator of the Ride Studio Cafe in Lexington, MA, as well as Ride Headquarters in Sherborn, MA<\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: left;\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All week I daydream about a single, ordinary group ride. Saturday morning I wake up before the alarm clock, whirl up a sweet, creamy smoothie, jump on my bike and pedal over to the meeting spot five minutes from home. I have no interest in sleeping in since I found this ride.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1198,1197],"tags":[36],"class_list":["post-12490","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-group-rides","category-riding","tag-shop-rides"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12490","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12490"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12490\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12498,"href":"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12490\/revisions\/12498"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12490"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12490"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sevencycles.com\/7\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12490"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}